My Wife Did Not Invite My Father to Thanksgiving Because of His Job

1987.

The turkey was excellent.

The sweet potatoes had gotten a little soft during the drive.

Dad took two servings anyway.

We watched the end of the parade.

Then a football game neither of us cared much about.

Mostly we talked.

About my work crew.

About the old Silverado carburetor he was rebuilding for a neighbor.

About winter.

About whether I needed to replace the weatherstripping around his garage doors.

He never asked again what had happened.

He understood.

Later, over coffee and pie, Dad said quietly,

“You didn’t have