bags.
That wasn’t where the problem started.
It was where the problem became impossible to ignore.
The signs had existed for years.
Being “the bigger person” can feel like maturity.
Sometimes it is.
But there is a line.
If you never define it, someone else eventually will.
And they probably won’t define it in your favor.
I hadn’t created real boundaries.
I told myself I was being supportive.
Understanding.
A good daughter.
A good sister.
What I was actually doing was teaching them that whatever happened, I would adjust.
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